Written by SpunOut | Last updated March 2nd, 2017
Self-esteem is how you feel about yourself. If you have low self-esteem it means that you think less of yourself than of other people. This could be in how you think about your appearance, looks, or abilities. When you are disconnected from your social media sites do you have the fear of missing out? You might feel that everyone else is out living their lives without you, but this is not the case. While social media is not the sole cause of low self-esteem, it can contribute to it.
Check out the tips below to learn how to protect your self-esteem while using social media.
Social media can be great for keeping in touch with friends and family but when it turns into a competition for racking up likes or RTs, it can be extremely disappointing if you don’t get them. But try not to base how you feel on the number of likes you have got on a post. This is easier said than done. Stop and think about the impact the amount of time you spend online is having on you. Are you spending more time online looking at other people living their lives than living your own? If so, it might be time to take a breather from social media and spend more time doing what you love.
If you spend your time on social media comparing yourself to others and telling yourself how great everyone else is and how awful you are, then you need to challenge those thoughts. Practicing Mindfulness may be able to help with this.
It’s hard not to compare yourself to all the other people posting on social media. But remember that these posts are only that person’s best version of themselves. It’s easy for your friend to appear that they are having a great time, when in fact they’re sitting at home feeling just as lonely as you are.
Images aren’t always as they seem either. No-one is going to put up a picture of them just having rolled out of bed. Instead they put up the picture of themselves with a full face of make-up, hair carefully fixed and with a filter. So, try to remember this if you find you are comparing yourself to them.
You might not believe this, but you are more than your social media profile. Instead of solely relying on social media interaction, pick up your phone to text or call your friends. It can be good to talk for a change.
You don’t have to delete your social media profiles completely. But it can help to take a break or reduce the time you spend on them for a while. There are loads of apps that will help you block social media from your phone or laptop.
Fill your newsfeed with people and pages who make you feel good and hide, unlike or defriend those that bring your mood down.
It’s not ok for other people to leave mean or hurtful comments on your social media account. For more on this see our page on cyberbullying.
Instead of envying your friend's life from afar and feeling lonely as you sit at home alone. How about meeting up with them and having a chat with them in real-life? Do something you both enjoy like grabbing a coffee, or going to the cinema.
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