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Most people, at some point, will have to deal with conflicts and fights in relationships. Running into conflicts and having fights is natural because no two people are the same, no matter how much they have in common with each other. However, fights and conflicts can be at times frustrating and difficult to deal with, especially when your partner and you are on opposite sides of the argument. If not careful, fights can lead to prolonged periods of frustration, hurtful things said, and dismissed feelings.<\/p>\n

How to resolve fights in relationships<\/h2>\n

Here are some tips on how to peacefully and productively resolve arguments and conflicts to avoid a messy fight or conflict.<\/p>\n

Let the small things go<\/h3>\n

Try not to turn every small bump in the road into a huge problem. Instead, try to question the importance of the issue at handif you find that it is small and irrelevant, it is probably best not to make a big deal about it. Remember, we’re all human, and we all make mistakes, so there will be times when\u00a0your partner, and even you, will slip up.<\/p>\n

Be an active listener<\/h3>\n

When dealing with fights in a relationship, try to actively listen<\/a> to what your partner is saying. In other words, ask clarifying questions after they are done talking and try not to interrupt when they are sharing their side of the argument. It is often easy to forget the importance of taking people’s feelings seriously when we are fighting, so try to be conscious of this.<\/p>\n

Be honest<\/h3>\n

If you don’t understand what your partner is saying, don’t pretend that you do. Instead, ask them for clarification. If you are truly angry about a topic, avoid brushing off the issue and pretending like it’s nothing. It helps to tell your partner how you really feel.<\/p>\n

Set boundaries<\/h3>\n

It is important to recognise when an argument or fight is getting out of control or too heated. It is also equally important to allow time for a breather if you get to that point in an argument. Arguing when both parties are extremely angry is not beneficial so be sure to take a break and then go back to talk about the issue again once you both have calmed down. If you do take a break from the argument, come back to it later you don’t want to just sweep it under the rug as that could cause problems later on down the road.<\/p>\n

Have patience<\/h3>\n

Not all conflicts and fights can be solved in 15 minutes, some may take some more time to address. Having patience also refers to being patient during the argument as well allow time for the other person to fully disclose what they are feeling, and they should allow\u00a0the same for you.<\/p>\n

Remember that you are trying to\u00a0solve\u00a0the problem, not\u00a0win\u00a0the argument<\/h3>\n

At times during fights we all forget that our main goal is resolving the issue rather than winning the argument. If your goal of the argument is to win, you will most likely leave the argument on worse conditions then when you began, which can lead to more fights in the future. Stubbornness is never the answer try to be open and listen to what the other person has to say because you are trying to resolve a conflict, not win a fight.<\/p>\n

Leave it in the past<\/h3>\n

Once you both have worked together to\u00a0resolve\u00a0the conflict, mutually agree to let it go. If you both decide to leave it in the past, try your best avoid bringing it up again, unless you feel your partner has not changed or if they are falling through on what you agreed on at the end of the argument.<\/p>\n

Show kindness during fights in relationships<\/h3>\n

At times it can be very hard to look at your partner and let them know that you love them, especially when you are fighting and are feeling extremely frustrated with them. Try to walk away from the argument having made up and leaving on good terms. Even if you plan to revisit the discussion again, it’s better to get on with the rest of your day on a positive note if it’s possible. Learn about healthy relationships<\/a> and how to know if you’re in a toxic relationship<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"template":"","class_list":["post-78503","informations","type-informations","status-publish","hentry","inform_topic-dating-intimate-partners","inform_topic-difficulties-with-family-friends-relationships","inform_topic-family-relationships","inform_topic-friendships","inform_topic-get-information","inform_topic-relationship-difficulties"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nDealing with conflicts and fights in relationships - spunout navigator<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"noindex, follow\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Dealing with conflicts and fights in relationships - spunout navigator\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Most people, at some point, will have to deal with conflicts and fights in relationships. 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